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Sunday, November 16, 2025

This is how we do it: ‘I do get jealous and question whether I’m cut out for non-monogamy’

Maya worried about entering into an open relationship with Ollie, but being honest with each other has deepened their relationship

How do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously

If I know that Ollie’s on a date, I find it difficult sitting around, not knowing what to do with myself

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* This article was originally published here

Sunday, September 28, 2025

This is how we do it: ‘Over 30 years, our spark has dimmed in difficult times, but we’ve always got it back’

After three children, Gavin and Lisa have sex less often these days, but it’s better quality and more meaningful than when they were younger

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Because I haven’t slept with anybody else for decades, my sexual skills don’t feel transferable; they are specific to Lisa

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* This article was originally published here

Sunday, August 24, 2025

Wednesday, August 20, 2025

Love as a business deal? Whales, unicorns and why Materialists and Anora have a lot in common

Both films explore the forfeiting of love for the financial security of a rich man. Sadly, the theme resonates for many in these straitened economic times

“Marriage is a business deal and it always has been.” So says Dakota Johnson’s Lucy, an elite Manhattan matchmaker in Celine Song’s second feature, Materialists. Lucy may be a modern woman, but her world looks eerily similar to the marriage mart of Jane Austen’s day. For Lucy and her clients, it is a truth universally acknowledged that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife. Or rather, a “high quality woman”, as Lucy would unironically put it.

Materialists drops us head first into a world where coupling off with a partner is a purely financial endeavour; where foolish notions of love are not merely ignored, but deemed to be irrelevant; where women must choose passion or practicality.

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* This article was originally published here

Sunday, August 17, 2025

This is how we do it: ‘Our lives are absorbed by raising kids, and we struggle to find time for sex’

Since becoming parents, Rich and Laura haven’t prioritised intimacy … but they hope marriage counselling will reignite their erotic connection

How do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously

Sex is still so important to me and I’m happier after – I’m just struggling to get in the mood

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* This article was originally published here