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Sunday, June 15, 2025

This is how we do it: ‘I prefer sex with someone who has erectile dysfunction’

Laila finds the 27-year age gap between her and Jeremy a turn-on. He says being in polyamorous relationships allows him to love different people in different ways

I respect Jeremy’s opinion and life experience and he makes me feel cared for

I also don’t experience jealousy. But I can feel insecure. I worry about being left for a monogamous relationship

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* This article was originally published here

Sunday, June 8, 2025

This is how we do it: ‘We live in a tiny flat with our kids, so we have sex in the woods at night’

Their love-life logistics may be tricky, but David and Anook have both been transformed by the intimacy they share

I’d had orgasms with previous partners, but I’d never tried to give myself one – I felt too ashamed

Anook had never used a vibrator before we met and now we have an enormous box of toys that we hide under our bed

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* This article was originally published here

Saturday, May 3, 2025

This is how we do it: ‘We don’t need sex for intimacy – we walk around naked, kiss and flirt’

Lucy and Kyra have accepted that their libidos differ – and their sex life ebbs, flows and evolves accordingly
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As it takes Kyra a long time to climax, we usually have sex on the weekend – it takes up a Saturday morning

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Saturday, April 19, 2025

Saturday, April 12, 2025

This is how we do it: ‘If one of us is on a business trip and meets someone, we’re free to pursue it’

For Lise and Patrick, the possibility of sex with other people has allowed their own love life to blossom – providing it’s within limits
How do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously

Once, Patrick had really nice oral sex with someone and told me what she did, and suggested we try that

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* This article was originally published here