I 18NB want to breakup with my partner 18F of less than 6 months

I 18NB want to breakup with my partner 18F of less than 6 months

Is it ever acceptable to end a relationship via text? If I followed this route, it wouldn't just be a single text message ending the relationship. I would leave it open for a conversation.

If doing it over text ist an option what should I do? I need advice on how to get them in to come meet me to break up. In the past when we have had serious chats in person and over text messages.

TLDR: is it okay to end relationship over text and if it isnt how to set up the in person meet up?

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My boyfriend is moving away soon and he’s not even sure if he wants to move away with me:

My boyfriend is moving away soon. We have been in a long-distance relationship for almost a year now bc he went on a folk high school. Which was a three hour drive away, but he lives here originally with his family. He is going to college soon and has a lot to think about. He is (M20) and I am (F19) our relationship have lasted almost a year now.

We’ve talked about moving in together, but now that he is getting closer to be moving to college. He haven’t talked about it a lot with me. Now it’s almost a month till he will be moving and I had to have a conversation with him. He said he wants to move in with me where his college is, but that he is not sure what to do or if it’s the right choice. I didn’t know this until recently, so it’s really hard for me to think about what I should do because I thought he was ready to move in with me.

What I knew was that he talked about having a student apartment so that everything would be safe and stable until he was in college witch ofc I understand, but what I didn’t know was that his student apartment had a two month notice period. Witch means I have to wait longer than I expected.

I thought that we were going to move in as soon as he was moving, but then the plan changed. I had to wait a few more months but I never understood what to do with the free time because I also wanted to start my life there, then I thought of maybe moving in my own apartment until we moved in together, but now he is not even sure if he wants to move in with me 😭.

I have graduated high school and could start college the same year as he, but my last year was really hard on high school and there is some subjects I need to take before I can become what I want and to get into what college I want aka the same as he. He is worried about my income because I don’t have much money to own an apartment for a long time without a job. I told him that I’m going to get a job as fast as possible. As soon as we move there and I have a year off, so it’s possible for me.

I have told him that I want to try to move in together bc I want to be with him regardless of the outcome. I know things can’t work out and things can happen but then we have at least tried right? bc he is the love of my life, but now he is not sure what he wants to do so what am I supposed to do in this situation?

I told him I will give him time to take the right decision, but I kind of have to know what his decision is, so I can plan my future to and do what I’m going to do.

TL;DR Me and my boyfriend want to try to move in together because he is moving to college, but now I am unsure of what to do since he is not sure if it’s the right choice to move in with me or not.

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My (28F) bf (25M) recently started PEDs and his attitude has changed a lot and I feel jealous of him.

My bf is the sweetest man on earth. Very quiet and never used drugs, not even a sip of alcohol or coffee his whole life. He recently decided to jump on testosterone cause he said he’s about at that age where it can start to decline. He’s been lifting weights since he was 15 and never even brought up the idea of PEDs until now.

He started a few days after telling me and the results were pretty fast. He’s up at 4 am and working out for hours. He honestly looks amazing, but he seems so cold. I didn’t realize it was possible for him to talk less than he already did. He’s always there to listen but he seems like a brick wall with no emotions at this point.

I’m jealous of how he looks and it hurts me so badly. He already seemed out of my league and now he looks even better. I train to and started looking into taking Anavar but he found out and told me I don’t need and PEDs ever. So I promised I wouldn’t take it. I feel horrible. It’s like he’s so motivated and progressing so much, and I’m just my usual self.

I’m scared he will leave me, but it’s also irrational, he always comes home to me.

Tl;dr bf started taking testosterone and is progressing a ton in his life. I feel jealous, insecure, and left behind.

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My BF (M34) tells me (F38) it's normal for guys to do this, but I'm worried it's more serious

My long term boyfriend (34) often has wet patches in his underwear and I've raised the question is there something wrong because it happens regularly after he pee's daily.

He just says that it's normal and it's nothing and refused to think there might be something else going on. He tells me I don't know what I'm talking about because I don't have a dick and really refuses to talk about it and can get angry if I push it.

I know for me me, if I have a bit come out after I visit the bathroom it's because my pelvic floor has been weakened and Ive read this can happen in men too amongst other things.

I'm looking for some clarity with those that have a penis, I'm wondering is this just due to years of poor bathroom practice or could there be something else going on.

Please help?

tl;dr my boyfriend tells me there's nothing wrong with guys having small wet marks in their underwear shortly after visiting the bathroom to pee but I think theres something more serious happening that he is in denial about.

Thank you

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Tyga and Avril Lavigne end their highly publicized relationship on good terms - Hindustan Times

Tyga and Avril Lavigne end their highly publicized relationship on good terms  Hindustan Times

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I found out that my GF is backstabbing me and IDK how to move past it.

My girlfriend (29F) and I (31F) recently had a heated argument amidst personal, career, and family issues. I was hoping she would lend an ear and provide support, but due to my poor communication skills, I failed to express myself clearly. Frustration got the best of me, and I made the mistake of comparing her unfavorably to Redditors, mentioning that I received more sensible responses online than from her when I needed support.

Understandably, she was upset by my comment and confided in her best friend, who interpreted my words as an implication of her intelligence. While I realized the harshness of my statement and intended to apologize, I discovered that her best friend had made several derogatory remarks about me. They accused me of thinking my girlfriend is stupid, avoiding accountability for my actions, blaming her for my career failures, and even telling me that I have an ugly personality.

I confronted her best friend about the hurtful comments without knowing the full context. I also called out my girlfriend for demonizing me without fully understanding the issue and making it about herself. I acknowledged my failure to communicate clearly and apologized for my harsh words. As a result, I decided to sever ties with her best friend, as it will inevitably make things awkward.

My GF asked for forgiveness and In an attempt to process my emotions, I chose not to respond to my girlfriend's messages initially, as she had told me to take my time. However, I eventually went to her place to discuss and resolve our issues.

Unfortunately, I discovered that she had been badmouthing and mocking me to her best friend, claiming I felt like a public figure, only concerned about my reputation being tarnished. Furthermore, she suggested that my friends were neutral towards me because they liked and preferred her company over mine.

Learning about her betrayal deeply hurt me. I had always considered her to be my number one fan, best friend, and confidante—the person who would defend and protect me. Feeling stabbed in the back, I felt betrayed.

My girlfriend is now crying and expressing remorse for the magnitude and impact of her actions. She is begging for forgiveness and the opportunity to work things out.

We had a lot of fights in the past that were far worse than this and I know both of us are in the wrong but we always found a way to work things out with just the two of us.

While I don't want to end the relationship, I'm struggling to find a way to forgive her and move past this situation.

TLDR: I’ve hurt my GF by comparing her to Redditors but instead of us just resolving it together, I caught her backstabbing me to her bestfriend

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Are we related?

So 1(21m) just found out that my gf (19) and I might be related. After 3 years of dating I found out that her grandmas maiden name was the same as my last name. So l done some digging online and found out how we were connected. To put it into words that make sense my great grandfather was my gf's grandma's great uncle. Which means her great great grandfather was my great grandfather's brother. What would this make me and my gf? If anybody that's good at the whole family genealogy thing could tell me I would appreciate it. Should we break up? Wwyd?

TL;DR: I found out after 3 years that I might be dating my cousin.

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