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Wednesday, June 5, 2024
Tuesday, June 4, 2024
My (34f) bf (35m) doesn't want me to attend his sister's family birthday
Hello! First of all, sorry if there's any mistake. English is not my first language.
So, today is the birthday of the sister of my bf. On saturday she's celebrating with friends and she invited me. I am going.
Today, my (34F) bf (35M) of 6 years told me she also wants to have dinner with their family, since today is the day. And we asked me if It's ok IG he attends alone with our daughter (5 month old).
I asked if this is something her sister told him or if this is something he thought by himself. He told me he thought about it because we are not having the best time together (mainly because of the baby) and I am rather sad this days (I tend to be alonse when I am sad).
I felt super bad with this. I tried to tell me how ugly and cruel it sounds to me and that I feel excluded (I think is worth mentioning that they are a very united family and even tough they treat me well and they are nice to me, I never felt part of their family). He insist there's been a lot of time since they are alone together and that I Should understand that and not feel excluded.
So, I guess I am asking a bunch of people online. Am I wrong?
Thanks!
TL;DR my bf wants to attend alone with our daughter tonight to have dinner with his family for his sister's birthday. I feel excluded. He says It's not a big deal.
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Monday, June 3, 2024
Make it make sense
make it make sense
I’m 21F, hes 20 M
so I very shortly dated this guy and I genuinely don’t understand what his deal is. To make it short, he love bombed me like crazy , lost feelings all of a sudden , then kept breaking no contact, blatantly told me wanted to keep me around, but when I told him how I felt he called me psychotic LOL. He called me a few days after this “psychotic” incident talking as if nothing happened, I was kind but didn’t give much in. So in my head I think, okay we’re on good terms ,whatever, move on. I have not contacted this man once after expressing how I felt but now he’s out here weeks after the phone call reposting shady stuff on tik tok. So what’s his deal? I’ve left him completely alone, no contact at all, removed him off everything a while ago, I used to reach out here and there but definitely not after the “psychotic” incident. I’m aware he’s a clear narcissist who literally does nothing but sits at home all day on tik tok. I just wanna understand what in the worlds going on in his head.
TL;DR- got love bombed, went no contact and he won’t stop with the shady reposts online.
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Sunday, June 2, 2024
My Girlfriend (F22) needs to share a hotel room with her guy best friend (M23) and I don't know what to do about it.
My (M21) girlfriend (F22) is going to Greenday in London soon. Thing is she is going with her guy bestfriend (M23) and to save money they have booked a hotel room with 1 bed . They have been friends for 8 years and apparently have done things like this before without anything happening. Thing is there is an option to get a room with 2 beds that's £10 more expensive. But they're refusing to book that room as "they're both struggling for money". I don't know how to feel about this. I already looked past guy friends as a red flag but this is ridiculous right? I don't feel comfortable with my girlfriend sleeping in the same bed or same room as another guy who's not me. She also knows how I feel about this, so what do I do?
TLDR: My girlfriend and her best friend are going to sleep in the same room and I don't feel comfortable with that.
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Saturday, June 1, 2024
my (22F) bf (27M) lied to me but I knew the truth and I feel overwhelmed of the way he tried to gaslight me.
I’m with my bf for 4 years, going into 5 this July. There’s one thing that makes me sick and I can’t forgive easily, and that’s lying. He knows that from the moment we met, I can’t stand lies and I always want the truth even if it’s bad news.
Throughout this years there have been 3 to 4 events where I knew the truth about something, I tried asking him about it and giving him the chance to explain himself to me, but he just straight up lied to me. It was really intense because the first two times I couldn’t give him evidence that I know how things happened so he just continued with a lie. He managed to confess a day after, or even some times months later in a random conversation where we both were “fine” so he felt comfortable saying he was lying back then and that I was right about the events.
He has just started at a new job, where he is the only guy there among other 2 guys and a lot of girls. I had a work opportunity outside our country so at the moment and for 4 months I’m going to be abroad so it’s been even more difficult for us. I catch myself getting insecure sometimes when a woman I don’t know is involved, but I try to soothe myself because I do know he loves me and that I’m being unreasonable with those thoughts. For the whole month that I’m away, we always speak on the phone and two hours pass by with him rambling about work and always defending one specific girl at work. Yesterday, while he was at work, I texted him and he didn’t reply but was active on instagram. I don’t check that in any way and I don’t care, but it happened to show his profile to a friend I met here so I saw he was online and thought “he’s here but doesn’t reply to me” and thought about making fun of it because I do like teasing him. When I was at his profile, the following went up when I refreshed it, and I found out that it was the girl he’s been so much mentioning from work. I’ve already sent him a teasing message, and he replied that he wasn’t on instagram. Then, the story changed to “her sister called him on insta”. That’s a straight up lie because he never speaks on insta with his sister. He sent me screenshot of the “call”, which was made at 17:28 from his part and ended the same time from his part again. But I’ve asked why he doesn’t reply to me at 17:10, where supposedly he was speaking on the phone with his sister. I knew he was on insta to accept the request from this girl from work, so I just wanted him to tell me the truth, it’s not even a big deal. But the way he lied to me and made up stories rather than just saying that made me feel sick. I might overreacting but I physically can’t stand lies, I wouldn’t lie to anyone let alone the person I love. He was keeping up with the lies until the end of the day, even though I have him a lot of chances for him to just say the truth. At midnight, on the phone, he finally said that he was on instagram because this girl sent him a request but that happened during the end of his shift, around 20:00. He was still lying to my face so I just said to him what happened and how I knew the story and knew he was lying the whole time about something so so minor. He finally confessed that all the stories he told me was a lie, and he justify it that he “wasn’t thinking and was an immediate move to lie to me because he kinda felt guilty about it”.
I know it’s a minor issue at the moment of the way it happened, but it has happened before with much bigger problems, I’ve always told him that I can’t respect someone who lies to my face and is fine about it, but I just can’t help myself to think of how he was okay lying, and how many other “lies” I might have believed only because I didn’t know the truth or didn’t have the ways to prove my gut feeling. He says he won’t ever lie to me again and that he don’t want to lose me. I love him and I also don’t want to lose him but I do feel overwhelmed and can’t stop thinking about how he lied straight up and even got offensive when I tried to tell him the truth.
TL/DR: my (22F) bf (27M) lied to me but I knew the truth and I feel overwhelmed of the way he tried to gaslight me.
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Friday, May 31, 2024
I 14F have a crush on my friend 14M but i don’t know if he likes me back.
Yes i know im young but i never used reddit before and need help, i 14F have a crush on one of closest friends 14M and i don’t wanna ruin our friendship by confessing my own feelings, i feel like he wouldn’t like me due to my body type(im 5’6 and chubby i used to go to the gym a ton but family issues rose and i don’t have a ride there anymore) whilst he’s a little shorter than me, skinny and works out a bit, but at the same time i feel like he does like me because of what he’s started sending me on tiktok, i have issues with my confidence and happiness because of how i look and my struggle to share my feelings, so i use the repost feature on tiktok hoping he wouldn’t see them, fun fact: he did see them, and he’s started sending me videos that are a slideshow the have sentence along the lines of ‘btw ur pretty’ or ‘im happy i met you’ and stuff like that. But this morning he sent me another one, the slides all but for one had stuff along the lines of ‘ur pretty’ and ‘talking to u makes my day better’. But one of them said exactly ‘I don't think you understand how in love I am with you’. i don’t know if he just seen the first slide and sent it or if he really meant that, or if he’s saying it in a platonic way cuz me him and another friend 14M aswell tell each other love you after we’re all going to bed on a discord call. I don’t want to assume his feelings and i’m struggling with my own but i know that i would love to have a future with him but i don’t want to ruin a friendship i love so much. Please help me out. Does he like me back,or is it platonic? or rather what would you do in my situation? any advice? i’ve never felt this way before.
TL;DR : I 14F have a crush on my friend 14M and i don’t know if he like me back or if it’s platonic, he’s sent me tiktok videos that call me pretty but this morning he sent me one the included ‘I don't think you understand how in love I am with you’ as one of the pictures, so i’m considering if he likes me back
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Thursday, May 30, 2024
am i awful for thinking abt breaking up with my bf?
i'll try to make this as short as possible. i (19F) think i need to break up with my boyfriend (20M). the problem is that there is no problem exactly. i've been feeling this was for a few months and i just tried to thug it out thinking maybe i was just overthinking and confused but these thoughts haven't gone away. i love him but im just not sure im in love with him any more. we've been dating since we were 16 and it's been perfectly fine the whole way along... no fights, no cheating, everyone says we're perfect together. so why have i suddenly emotionally disconnected ? i don't feel like spending as much time together, i no longer enjoy being in his space nor having him in mine, little things he says and does are starting to annoy me. we both still live in our own homes with our parents and family, we don't share any finances, we don't really have a mixed group of our friends. neither of us would be at any major loss if we ended it. i just think as we're getting older and growing up i've decided i want to take a different path now. there's not a thing i would change about the last few years i've spent with him, it's just time to move on. but now the question is, how do i go about telling him? this will completely catch him off guard, he is still fully in love with me and i feel like the scum of the earth for thinking of wanting to end things. i just don't think it's fair on either of us to stay as we are when im feeling this way. he deserves to know but i know it will hurt him and i want to make this as painless as possible. i need advice desperately
ーーー TL;DR;: i think i want to break up with my bf but he hasn’t done anything wrong and is still in love with me. am i awful for thinking this way? how to i make it less painful for him ?
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