How do i f20 tall about sex to my m20 partner?

How do I talk with my partner about sex?

First of all, im sorry if this is the wrong sub but here it goes, I F20 have been together with my boyfriend M20 for 2 years and we have a good sex life but it's kind of boring, we're each other's firsts and I try to do all kinds of things that he likes, I'm getting him off in a lot of different ways but he doesn't really reprociates that.

Usually we just do the penetrant aspect, he finishes and since that doesn't really do a lot for me, he Usually talks to me until I'm done too (by myself) . I feel kind of left out of the whole thing which is stupid considering that it's something that should be done between the two of us and not just him and don't know how to bring it up without making him feel bad about himself.

Does anyone have tips? Any advice helps, I'm just kind of scared of confrontation

Tldr: boyfriend doesn't really offer variety during sex

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I(30F) RSVP'd for my cousin's(26F) wedding. My dog sitter fell through and my husband (30M) doesn't trust the substitute.

I RSVP'd myself and my husband for my cousin's wedding next week out of town but unfortunately plans with our trusted dog sitter fell through.

Someone on Rover who had good reviews and friendly dogs agreed to sub in, but my husband doesn't fully trust them as the platform has no way of vetting their dog sitters. He's agreed to letting them give them a trial run, but he is going to spend the whole trip worrying about our dog. He would prefer staying home with the pup and for me to go solo.

Back to my cousin, I know wedding planning is stressful and it really sucks for people to cancel after RSVPing. There's currently some family frustration against me for not visiting home more often. My cousin has never expressed any tension, but I imagine she hears some of the conversations about me. I was planning on giving her a cash gift that would cover the food/drink cost of myself and my husband so she at least would not be out of pocket.

How do I balance everyone's feelings? Would it be acceptable for me to cancel my husband's RSVP and apologize to my cousin about the circumstances but reassure her she would not be out of pocket. I think my aunt might give me grief, should I tell them a family issue came up for my husband? Should I also send the Rover sitter a small cancellation fee for the inconvenience?

Tl;Dr: Plans with dog sitter fell through. Do I cancel my husband's RSVP and fly solo or use the substitute despite his concerns?

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I can't trust my girlfriend (21M)(21F)

There's this thing that has been bugging me. In one of her previous relationships, my girlfriend went and saw an ex-ex boyfriend of hers during her relationship with an ex boyfriend. While she was on a trip, she asked her ex-boyfriend if she could see her ex - ex boyfriend. And he said he had nothing against it.

I have no clue what happened to them. They supposedly went out for a drink and caught up for a few hours and that's it.

I heard about that story from a friend of mine recently, and when I asked her, she said it's true, from detail to detail. She did see her ex ex, and she did ask her ex, but she did nothing.

Every time she goes to the town her ex lives in (most of her family is there, she goes there every 3-4 months) I'm waiting for a text "hey, I wanna see my ex" or something along those lines.

We talked about the situation and I told her that we'd be done for if she ever saw an ex of hers, and she was very dissatisfied with my boundary but she accepted iy.

She said she believes exes can be friends (bullshit) and she has nothing against that.

How do I gain trust? Whenever she goes there I feel anxious.

Note: She was texting her ex at the beggining of the relationship(first day of the relationship to be exact), and when I told her to stop she did stop. She never texted him again and she removed him from most social media.

tl;dr: I have a hard time trusting my girlfriend because of some things she's done in her past. Do I have right or am I tripping?

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5 Smart Ways to Repair Broken Trust in Relationships - Patheos

5 Smart Ways to Repair Broken Trust in Relationships  Patheos

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I 18NB want to breakup with my partner 18F of less than 6 months

I 18NB want to breakup with my partner 18F of less than 6 months

Is it ever acceptable to end a relationship via text? If I followed this route, it wouldn't just be a single text message ending the relationship. I would leave it open for a conversation.

If doing it over text ist an option what should I do? I need advice on how to get them in to come meet me to break up. In the past when we have had serious chats in person and over text messages.

TLDR: is it okay to end relationship over text and if it isnt how to set up the in person meet up?

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My boyfriend is moving away soon and he’s not even sure if he wants to move away with me:

My boyfriend is moving away soon. We have been in a long-distance relationship for almost a year now bc he went on a folk high school. Which was a three hour drive away, but he lives here originally with his family. He is going to college soon and has a lot to think about. He is (M20) and I am (F19) our relationship have lasted almost a year now.

We’ve talked about moving in together, but now that he is getting closer to be moving to college. He haven’t talked about it a lot with me. Now it’s almost a month till he will be moving and I had to have a conversation with him. He said he wants to move in with me where his college is, but that he is not sure what to do or if it’s the right choice. I didn’t know this until recently, so it’s really hard for me to think about what I should do because I thought he was ready to move in with me.

What I knew was that he talked about having a student apartment so that everything would be safe and stable until he was in college witch ofc I understand, but what I didn’t know was that his student apartment had a two month notice period. Witch means I have to wait longer than I expected.

I thought that we were going to move in as soon as he was moving, but then the plan changed. I had to wait a few more months but I never understood what to do with the free time because I also wanted to start my life there, then I thought of maybe moving in my own apartment until we moved in together, but now he is not even sure if he wants to move in with me 😭.

I have graduated high school and could start college the same year as he, but my last year was really hard on high school and there is some subjects I need to take before I can become what I want and to get into what college I want aka the same as he. He is worried about my income because I don’t have much money to own an apartment for a long time without a job. I told him that I’m going to get a job as fast as possible. As soon as we move there and I have a year off, so it’s possible for me.

I have told him that I want to try to move in together bc I want to be with him regardless of the outcome. I know things can’t work out and things can happen but then we have at least tried right? bc he is the love of my life, but now he is not sure what he wants to do so what am I supposed to do in this situation?

I told him I will give him time to take the right decision, but I kind of have to know what his decision is, so I can plan my future to and do what I’m going to do.

TL;DR Me and my boyfriend want to try to move in together because he is moving to college, but now I am unsure of what to do since he is not sure if it’s the right choice to move in with me or not.

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My (28F) bf (25M) recently started PEDs and his attitude has changed a lot and I feel jealous of him.

My bf is the sweetest man on earth. Very quiet and never used drugs, not even a sip of alcohol or coffee his whole life. He recently decided to jump on testosterone cause he said he’s about at that age where it can start to decline. He’s been lifting weights since he was 15 and never even brought up the idea of PEDs until now.

He started a few days after telling me and the results were pretty fast. He’s up at 4 am and working out for hours. He honestly looks amazing, but he seems so cold. I didn’t realize it was possible for him to talk less than he already did. He’s always there to listen but he seems like a brick wall with no emotions at this point.

I’m jealous of how he looks and it hurts me so badly. He already seemed out of my league and now he looks even better. I train to and started looking into taking Anavar but he found out and told me I don’t need and PEDs ever. So I promised I wouldn’t take it. I feel horrible. It’s like he’s so motivated and progressing so much, and I’m just my usual self.

I’m scared he will leave me, but it’s also irrational, he always comes home to me.

Tl;dr bf started taking testosterone and is progressing a ton in his life. I feel jealous, insecure, and left behind.

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