How to increase boyfriend's cum volume and shoot count?

Hi, I've previously been with a guy whose loads were enormous, not just in volume but also in repetitions (i.e., a lot of sperm would come out at each cumshot, and he would shoot around 7-10 times), which would turn me on like crazy.

My current boyfriend's cock is awesome, but he can barely cum, with an average 2 shoots per orgasm which are dense and do not even shoot out of his cock, but gently flow out of the tip.

I've been with him for 6 months now and I do really love him, but cum for me has always been a favourite in sex. How do I help him increase cum volume and repetitions?

I've tried edging, but it doesn't really work, and he drink less than half a litre per day, don't know if this has any impact.

TLDR: how to increase my boyfriend's cumshots and volume?

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My (20M) girl (21F) compares me to her ex in a good way. i don't know how to feel.

Hi all. I've been with this girl for about 3 months. We're in love and together always, just aren't official. Our relationship began only a few weeks after she was dumped by her now ex boyfriend of over a year. Yeah we moved fast.

Sometimes, not constantly, she compares my actions to her ex's, but in a good way. She says how much better i treat her than her ex, how i do things for her that he would never do, or how ive got a future when he doesn't. She tells me how she used to beg for things like flowers, compliments and she loves that i do those things just because. Twice she told me about times where he made her really upset. She even said he didn't like sex so she had to ask for it. I usually say how thats terrible and im happy to make her happy.

I'm truly flattered by it but also think its weird. I can't help but think she's not over him yet, especially since she was dumped by him. I understand she's barely had time to process the breakup so if she feels comfortable with me enough to share her frustrations then I'm there to listen and let her know im happy im better for her. She's said how she doesn't miss him, doesn't want him back, but she never said she was over him.

There was one time she compared me to him differently than the other times. We were getting in her car and she said how her ex used to open her door for her so I started doing it every time. And another time she told me about some joke they would say before getting in the car. There was one time after sex when she told me about something she used to ask her ex to do for her and he never would.

I trust her, she says all the time how she really loves me, how I'm the best guy she's ever loved and had sex with, and how she wants to take our relationship very seriously. I've asked her to be my gf and she said she wants to wait and not rush as to not mess up our relationship which has potential. Now I wonder if that also has something to do with her ex.

I can't understand why she could be thinking about her ex after i do good things. I feel like i could be insecure or overthinking , so i ask for advice on how to handle this and I appreciate it greatly.

tl;dr: my girl often says how im better than her ex from a few momths ago, or talks about times he made her upset. Is this a red flag?

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Right person wrong time? 22f/25m)

Tl;dr I (22f) met a guy in Aug and the connection was incredible. He travels for work all over the country but he came back to town numerous times, specifically for me. Recently he came back for a 4 month stint where we were in a honeymoon period, and I loved it!! At the end of the month he told me that he has taken a job in the city, 5 hrs away, that it looks like he will not be coming back anytime soon, and that he doesn’t like long distance. I understand that he wants to stay in once place and that all his friends and family live in the city, so I didn’t put up much of a fight for him. My friends think I have lost the right guy and right now so do I! He hasn’t reached out since he left and I’m terrified that I have let one of the best things to happen to me just walk away. What do I do?

Many thanks a lonely and sad girl

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30M and still a virgin and it is weighing on me heavily.

I remain a kissless virgin as 30 years old and it starting to bother me. Never had a relationship or done anything beyone a hug. Primarily due to having incredibly high inhibitions and being pre-occupied with others perception of me.

I've been told I'm quite good looking, and was approached quite frequently in my younger days. I'm 6ft tall, with an athletic build (Gym and training), have my own place etc. I'm confident in my body but not with my personality, it is like an absurd mismatch as I'm quite reclusive and softly spoken.

I've decent enough conversational skills, but have always had major mental hurdles interacting with woman (in therapy). I've literally had a random woman come sit on my lap at a party, and I asked if she would prefer a seat because I was uncomfortable with the situation... People have assumed, and directly told me that I'm gay probably for about 12 years when I'm definitely not.

The problematic thing is for some reason my libido has exponentially increased over the last 2 years, and it is pretty much unbearable to deal with. I'm virtually always frustrated and distracted and having difficulty suppressing it. I'm unsure if this is a psychological phenomenon or hormonal, but it has been pretty crazy.

The positive is this has pushed me out of my comfort zone, I'm a bit more active in pursuit on dating apps. Have been on my first date recently, which unfortunately didn't go anywhere, but was a major milestone for me. It is a slow, mostly unfulfilling process however, given the situation.

I'm also concerned about having to disclose this to any prospective partners. It seems most women will have experience and not be enticed by the idea of having to guide someone. I'd literally have no idea how to escalate or approach things, beyond instinctual actions. Certainly advice is needed?

Tl;dr

• 30 y/o kissless virgin, with intense libido
• Have been approached by women but have mental hang-ups and high inhibitions.
• Stressed about my lack of experience and performance issues. -Strong desire to change situation.

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Can’t decide if I (25F) should reach out to someone (27M) who I saw briefly

About a year ago I matched with someone on bumble, we went on a few dates and where in talking stages. When I broke things off because I started seeing someone else but that ended a couple months later.

We remained friends on Instagram but didn’t talk, until I went on a holiday he commented on my stories and we stared chatting. It was general life discussion stuff, we didn’t discuss meeting up again or anything.

It’s been about a month and a bit since I got back from holiday and I’m wondering if I should reach out to him or if it’s better just to leave it.

Tl;dr Unsure if I should try to rekindle something with someone, when I ended the relationship.

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Does it worth to pay ?

M18 Hey guys, I've never experienced any kind of relationship before. I never even kissed a girl, and always being ethier ignored or frindzoned (I am handsome, 185 cm height, being raised in a really good environment, kind, will never even swear if front of a girl 1 am with,). Currently in New Zealand (Auckland) (all friends and family are in the home country (far, far away). I do really want to spend my 19th birthday/Christmas/ NY with a girl, but clubs/Tinder/ dating apps are not for me. The question is, dear redditors, DOES IT WORTH to pay for a really expensive girl from escort +/- 200nzd /hr ? So, basically what I want is to her to teach me all the sexual stuff +watch a film with her + cuddling + wine drinking +interesting conversations + perhaps we could play biliard if she is good in it.

There are a couple of things which stop me from paying for it:

1. All girls from VIP escort had been fucked by many men

2. I don't want to have any medical problems afterwards

3.I don't want to feel myself lonely again after she left, since I know that she is only been with me for money

1. I fell in love really quickly I might belive in the fake the she is providing

TLDR: Does it worth to pay for an expensive escort if you are virgin (money are not the problem, the other things are) ?

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Why the Holidays Are a True Test of Your Relationship - The New York Times

Why the Holidays Are a True Test of Your Relationship  The New York Times

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