My (20F) bf (20M) didnt avoid the girl i hate , what do i do ?

My bf and I have been together for the past 2 years. We are in the same uni , in 3rd year. We fight pretty often due to trust issues , both of us are rly loyal to each other its just that he doesnt trust few guys in my class, similarly i dont like a girl from his class, lets calll her U. We've never thought of other people, we love each other dearly and are extremely loyal, but we fight like hell cuz of our doubts on each other. For eg, we have agreed to avoid the ppl we r uncomfortable with. I have avoided the guys he hates as much as possible , except when we really need to work on projects etc. Likewise , he avoids U when she interacts. But we had a fight few days back and didnt meet or talk to each other today in uni cuz of it. I saw him while he was eating and U sat next to him as soon as she saw me. I expected him to get up and move away (to avoid her) but he continued to eat with his frds and U sat there talking to everyone. I felt rly betrayed, idk if im overreacting. The reason why I hate U is cuz she said shit abt my relationship with my bf and even tried to hit on my bf back then. And U dislikes me as well. I confronted my bf and he replied that he was eating nd didnt want to get up cuz of that. Also, due to the fight few days back we almost broke up . He said that he doesnt owe me anything cuz we broke up, i mean we say that but we always get back when we say lets break up. What do i do ?

TLDR : My bf didnt move away from a girl i hate when she sat next to him

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I, 25M, found the perfect girl, 25F, except.. maybe I didn’t..

tldr: I found out the girl who I met online has been in a long term, long distant relationship.

I met a girl online a little over a month ago. She ticks all of the boxes that I could possibly ask for. The conversation flows so naturally. So we had been talking for a couple of weeks every day, but haven’t met irl yet. FaceTiming, texting, flirting, sexting, etc. then all of a sudden I was ghosted and I didn’t hear from her. Completely no contact. After a week, she calls me crying and told me that she had been lying to me, and that she’s been in a long distant relationship for a couple of years. The week she ghosted me he [39M] had came to visit her. She tells me that she wants to end it with him & that she hasn’t been happy for a very long time.

Of course, I am very sympathetic and told her it’s ok and I forgive her. I really felt for her in the moment and could tell she was really distressed. I don’t know if I should continue talking to her though.

I am just confused.

Do I ghost her??

I feel so confused because she’s the perfect girl, except for this one MAJOR part that she didn’t included me in on.

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Newly living together

24M and 21F - 4month relationship We are starting a new chapter in our life’s where we have started to live together. Our relationship has been challenging but for the most part we get through the rough patches. I’m starting to live in her apartment and like a normal worried boyfriend, I try to help in everything thing I can. I clean constantly the kitchen and help in every chore! We’re I’m trying to get at is that yesterday I was sleeping when for the third time she woke me up with loud TikTok’s. Even tho I don’t like being woken up, I gently asked if she could turn it down or even off She really annoyed said that she can’t even watch videos in HER HOUSE How am I supposed to feel welcomed?

Am I overreacting? (YES OR NO?)

Like she offers the space for us to build something and says things like that! That just makes me feel like I will never feel welcome and like we have something together

TL;DR! - girlfriend won’t compromise in her apartment where we are trying to start to live together

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The blatant stubbornness is mind blowing

The blatant stubbornness is mind blowing

I know this post is going to sound mean & people are probably going to say I need to break up with him. Trust me, I’ve thought about it, but then I feel like I’m overreacting. It’s his stubbornness & irresponsibility that is triggering me. For example, our dog ran out of food yesterday so he fed her a shit ton of bread in the morning knowing she has a severe stomach sensitivity. Sure enough it gave her diarrhea & he saw her having diarrhea plus we had a whole conversation about it so he knows. Then I bought some dog food while he was at work & this morning I guess he didn’t see the bag & I caught him about to feed her a shit ton of bread again. And I ask him why he would give her something that clearly made her sick and he said it’s better than nothing right? I said “no, it’s not. It’s not ok to give an animal, or anyone for that matter, something they are allergic to or something that makes them sick.” Which he replied “like I said it’s better than nothing right?” And I explained again why he’s wrong & he got irritated & reluctantly agreed & apologized. And another example, we get food stamps & he spends his on an energy drink & a bag of chips at the gas station like 3-4 times a week which costs about $6-7. Sometimes he gets me something which makes it $15-20 even though I tell him I don’t want anything because I don’t agree with spending food stamps that way. I explained to him how doing that is going to make him run out of food stamps for actual groceries, I even did the math & showed him. He said they’re his food stamps & he’ll spend them how he wants & he also said he would rather spend food stamps on this bullshit than his own cash because it adds up & I said ”exactly, so if you use up your food stamps before they refill again, guess what you’ll have to spend your own cash on? Groceries & trust me that groceries are way more expensive than those little snacks & drinks you get” He got irritated with me about that too & again reluctantly agreed & said he’d try to do better. Are these reasons to break up with someone? I do love him & care about him & he treats me well & helps with bills, contributes to the household etc. His mind set on a lot of things just frustrates me.

Tl;dr boyfriend is stubborn & irresponsible but means well. I’m frustrated & wondering if these are reasons to break up with someone.

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Does my Airbnb flatmate (m30) like me? (F25)? 😩

TL;DR my Airbnb flatmate tagged along and went shopping with me, paid for Uber, dinner, drinks and was nice but im not sure if he is just friendly or if he likes me

I met this guy just few days ago, he chatted me up, today we chatted again and he asked me what I wanna do with the day. I told him I’m going shopping and he asked if he can join.

He went with me to shop for dresses lol, he paid for dinner, Uber and other stuff we drank even though I offered to pay for my things or for him, he insisted

But he didn’t mention anything about his past dating life nor didn’t say anything that he finds me pretty or he’d like to take me out on date (nothing straight forward and no indication of attraction I guess)

If he doesn’t like me in this way why would he tag along and pay for stuff though? I’m way too shy to make a move 😭

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My (30 m) gf (27 f) says she doesn’t trust herself

My girlfriend of 4 months is very insecure and was slightly sheltered in the past. Before her and I met, she had a passionate and very toxic fling with an emotionally abusive narcissist. Well he’s popped back up (more than likely out of boredom or not being able to make a victim out of someone else) harassing her, threatening to show up places and get her fired from her job ect.

Last night she kind of blew up on me over a very small issue and i could tell it was coming from somewhere else. So after some work and talking, i pulled it out of her that she still has feelings for this guy because “the sex was really good” and ect ect. She goes to the same gym and when she saw him recently (after all of this harassment) he told her to give him $500 or go home and “make love to him”. She said she stormed off telling him she’s in a relationship and isn’t interested ect. But white talking last night, she said after leaving, it brought her back to thinking about the sex they had and got her excited. And that she doesn’t trust her thoughts or actions and decided to block his number ect.

It took awhile to open her up and feel safe to tell me these things, so I didn’t react when she was talking about them, just listening. But her and I haven’t had sex (mutual decision to wait), so obviously these things are heart wrenching to hear. Her and i have a really good relationship (communication, chemistry, similarity in values, same interests). I treat her like a queen, better than she’s ever been treated in the healthiest relationship she’s ever had, she says. But she seems to be drawn away by this extremely toxic narcissist that has called her names, made her develop tons of insecurities, and even inspired her to get tattoos that cover parts of her body that he criticized. The obvious answer is “just drop her and move on”, but I really want this to work out with her. Any suggestions?

TL;DR: gf’s narcissist ex fling popped back up harassing her and tried blackmailing her into having sex with him. And although ex is taking action to remove his presence from her life, she’s still attracted and drawn to him, and I don’t know what to do

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Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris' Relationship Timeline - Cosmopolitan UK

Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris' Relationship Timeline  Cosmopolitan UK

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