tldr: I found out the girl who I met online has been in a long term, long distant relationship.
I met a girl online a little over a month ago. She ticks all of the boxes that I could possibly ask for. The conversation flows so naturally. So we had been talking for a couple of weeks every day, but haven’t met irl yet. FaceTiming, texting, flirting, sexting, etc. then all of a sudden I was ghosted and I didn’t hear from her. Completely no contact. After a week, she calls me crying and told me that she had been lying to me, and that she’s been in a long distant relationship for a couple of years. The week she ghosted me he [39M] had came to visit her. She tells me that she wants to end it with him & that she hasn’t been happy for a very long time.
Of course, I am very sympathetic and told her it’s ok and I forgive her. I really felt for her in the moment and could tell she was really distressed. I don’t know if I should continue talking to her though.
I am just confused.
Do I ghost her??
I feel so confused because she’s the perfect girl, except for this one MAJOR part that she didn’t included me in on.
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