Am I jealous of our cat?
Me(22F) and my bf(23M) are 3.5 years in a relationship. We decided to get a cat about 1.5 years ago. The cat turned out to be quite independent in nature, he is not very affectionate towards both of us. I’m fine by that, I’ve had cats like him and it’s no problem. He occasionally shows us some love, so most of the time I’m just happy when it happens and thats it.
My bf on the other hand is really obsessed with the cat. He tries to cuddle the cat, even if the cat is not happy with it. He pets the cat all the time and carries him around(this the cat tolerates quite well). The problem is — he just gives the cat so much attention it drives me crazy.
There were several times when bf would call me to come cuddle and then the cat shows up close and he drags the cat in. There is nothing sexual or cute, just an upset cat and an upset me. My love language is touch and I love to just cuddle, but now most of the time the cat us just between us. He just think it’s cute and I’m overreacting.
I tried talking about it and mentioned several times that I want it to be my prime time and after he can do whatever. But the argument just stagnated in “i don’t see anything bad about it” and “he’s just so cute i can’t resist” state.
What do I do? Am I crazy and really jealous of the cat? Should we talk about it again? Should I just drop it and live on?
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TL;DR : My boyfriend drags the cat in when we cuddle. I don’t like it. What do we do?
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