My boyfriend (27m) and I (26f) have been together for 6 years. We started to live together about 2 years ago in his parents' old house in which they used to live. This house was empty and we have decided to ask them to live there so we can save more money for our own place and they were okay with that. We even offered to pay at least some money for rent, but they refused. My relationship with his parents is okay, we are very different, but up until now we were respectful, so we didn't have any problems.
A bit of a background story about my family. I grew up in a family where fights about inheritance and properties were often. The situation was so bad that my father even tried to commit a suicide a couple a years ago, fortunatelly, he survived. So I would never fight about something like that with anyone. I don't need anyone's property and don't expect anything. And those kind of fight are quite regular at my boyfriend's family as well. (We live in the Balkans...)
Last night, we have visited his parents and his mother (52f) started to talk about how she would rather die then live in the nursery home when she gets old and that she expects for her children to take care of her. And I said that my father took care of his father for 10 years because he was disabled and it left great consequences on him and asked if she in hipothetical situation, would agree to go to nursery home if her children could afford it and she needs 24h care or she would basically ruin someone's life. She took that question pretty hard and told me that she needs to take same legal precautions because we are going to take her house and everything she has and kick her out. I told her that that wasn't even remotely related to my question and that I don't want anyone's anything nor I would kick someone out, I mean what the hell. So she started to yell at me and I just said I am not gonna deal with this and went home.
Now, I want to move out from their house we are currently in because I don't want to be on their property and give someone a reason to accuse me of something I am trying really hard not be part of because of the situation in my family. I don't want any inheritance, anyone's house, I just want to live life without that kind of drama. Should we move?
TL;DR My boyfriend and I are living in his parents' house and I don't want to be part of family drama over inheritance and stuff like that, but his mother accused of wanting to take her house and kick her out, should we move out?
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