I dont want to hear that i shouldnt or things like that please.
We were together for 1 year.
So obv we broke up...but not in a bad way she wanted to stay like a friend but i couldnt do that so i cut everything with her and then i started going on therapy that helped me change perspective about that. Now i can see that we can maybe rekindle our relationship and start again but there is small problem.
It was long distance relationship and we were connected through discord and i dont think that going to visit her is good idea rn. but now that we were not together anymore she found new friends on discord from diffrent contries so she is spending time with them and obv she cant just go and start doing all the activities that we used to do together again with me after few days(few days of texting her)...i need to reconnect somehow so we can talk more or text more but i dont know how to do that...i dont want to push her and spam her. I dont want to text her everyday so i dont feel pushy and needy + spamming her isnt good idea. But i kinda just dont want to text her once in a month. I would like to try reconnect slowly but im clueless how to do it
yesterday when we texted she said that she doesnt want to open to another person about her problems cuz others just refuse to "know her" ( i mean her fav things and so on) and that i was the only one who cared.
so i would like to ask you Reddit How should i proceed and not fuck up things? how should i not look needy and pushy and not annoying her with my texts?
TL;DR! : We broke up i refused to be friends i cut all connection. i went to therapy and they changed my Prespective and now we are Reconnecting but i would like to ask you how to do it properly so i dont fuck things up,
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