I (f38) snooped my partners (m35) Instagram account and looked at the accounts he follows. Before we got together a year ago I knew he followed a lot of porn accounts. I told him it was upsetting for me to see him looking at this frequently and said he was happy to unfollow them.
I snooped tonight and saw he has followed a new one. It’s really upset me and I don’t know if have the right to now talk to him about it because I’m the one that snooped. It’s not about him being in the wrong, he is who he is and I know he loves me, this is on me. I’m the one upset. Normally I would just bring it up and talk about how I feel but I feel ashamed because I snooped.
Do I talk to him, own it and tell him it’s really upsetting? Or just find a way to live with it.
Tl:Dr - I checked out what accounts my partner follows on Instagram and he’s followed a new porn one after telling me he unfollowed them as he knows it upsets me.
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