I (30M) need advice, I feel like I've been completely unfair towards my partner (26F) due to my honesty.
We've only been together for almost half a year now, things got serious rather quickly and we now live together, have done for just over a month.
About two weeks my partner decided she'd like to tell me about her past, she was a webcam model for 2 years. Initially my reaction was just.. oh cool and I had some questions she was happy to answer.
Then it started to play on my mind a lot, I have been diagnosed with anxiety and depression which isn't helping me process all of this.
We had a discussion last night after I was honest and said I'm still not sure how I feel about it.
She asked me is it something you would break up with me for? My honest answer right then was, I don't know. She started to cry and told me the thought of us splitting up made her feel like a little part of her inside had died, it broke my heart, I was upset at this too as I never want to hurt her.
Was it wrong of me to be honest and say I don't know? I understand now that she must feel like she's on a piece of rope that could snap at anytime. I've had last night and all night to think about it and its definitely not something I want to break up over and I would like to deal with it so it doesn't become an issue again. I've told her this but I'm afraid the damage is already done.
TL:DR: My partner was a webcam model, she asked if its something I would end the relationship over. I said I don't know.
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