Hey what are reasons why you would Take an ex Back, you Just lost feelings for because He was Just Not so available (didnt See Each Others in 4 weeks) and Had much work to do.
Gf broke Up because she was Always reaching out, sceduling Dates (80/20%). And i didnt have that much time.
In our relationship was No violence, betrayl or anything Like that.
Our meet ups we're Always Nice, We Had a good time and i also got to know her Family and some Friends. She invited me to her Birthday But i couldnt come since i was Out of time.
She also asked to Go for Dinner with her parents. I also Had No Time (finishing my studies right now).
(Maybe i Should mention that shes got bpd probably because she Made Bad expiriences in her youth 13-15)
A week ago WE meet Up and sze told me that she couldnt Go on with since WE Had different perspectives on Relationships, she wanted to See me more Often, told her i didnt have much time lately.
The Same evening i asked her if we could Talk again, she Said she Had to sleep over and consider.
The next day she Said that she Had distanced Herself emotionally from me in the 30 days WE didnt See Each Other cause she was Out of town.. And she couldnt Change that so easily. But she was thanking me for the good Times WE Had.
I responded that i think WE Had the Same needs concerning closeness and that id Loved to See her more Often but i Just didnt have time. Furthermore that i Accept IT but dont want IT, Love her, want to See her again and Sort Things Out. And that If she Changed her mind she can contact me.
She didnt reached Out by then (1 week).
Anything i can do? What are reasons for you to Take your ex Back?
TL DR: Gf broke Up, bcs i was Less available. WE Always Had a good time. Cant See her for 2 months/ shes traveling. Any Chances ? What to do?
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