I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost two years now, and there are just some comments he’s made that I find really hard to forget. Obligatory he treats me great otherwise, and I very much like him and would prefer not to break up.
For example, he’s made comments like:
-mixed girls are perfect and the best of both worlds. (I’m white, I look nothing like a mixed race black girl).
-I have to accept that there are going to be people more attractive than me out there, and be realistic and accept that.
-at base level, all relationships are transactional.
-they don’t go together, he’s not as attractive as she is. Why would she be with him? (in response to seeing a couple out in public.)
He’s said he prefers being logical about things, but I feel like someone should value being kind to their SO than being logical. I just don’t know how to let go of these comments and get over them. Is it naive or unrealistic that I want to be with someone who thinks the sun shines out of my ass? Do these comments indicate that he doesn’t think that, or am I wrong?
Tl;dr: bf makes some comments relating to my and other appearances and it makes me feel like he doesn’t totally like me 100%.
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